OhHey:
This is my dream.
I always gain more weight when it's for someone I'm really into and have a great connection with.
For me gaining weight is intimate and I'd rather do it for someone I can develop a sustainable relationship with out of mutural trust, love, and respect.
Honestly those things make me put on weight more than any amount of stuffing or heavy cream 🥴😳
I guess I'm just a hopeless romantic.
But I find this is what works best and what I want in the future. If it's not like that I don't want it.
I agree gaining weight is an intimate experience. Feeding just as much. Not very active on here because of that, but I also want to meet people so I feel I fall into the hopeless romantic category as well. Thanks for helping to put my thoughts into words!
I hope you find someone who appreciates your values and helps you meet all your goals.